When Religion Turns Evil

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By Baileybear

Ricky Rodriguez

Prophet Prince died in a murder-suicide
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Prophet Prince died in a murder-suicide

From Ricky's Suicide Note

'I've come from an extremely abusive cult and...I've been trying to figure out what 'normal' life is like. Emotionally, it's gotten harder every day I've been out. I've become more and more angry at all the sick perverts who to this day are not the least bit sorry for the thousands of little kids that they have repeatedly raped, molested and methodically tortured for many years. To me, these people are the worst of the worst, and unfortunately, my evil mother is the head of it.'

Extract from Jesus Freaks


JESUS FREAKS

Jesus Freaks - A True Story of the Murder and Madness on the Evangelical Edge is a chilling expose by award-winning journalist Don Lattin. It reads like a crime thriller in places, yet it is not a fiction novel.

The Children of God, now called The Family International was founded by David Berg, son of Virginia Brandt Berg, a well-known evangelical pentecostal preacher. Berg said that his mother was his biggest influence.

Berg found a receptive audience evangelising to hippies of the sixties and seventies in California who were disillusioned with 'the system' - government, traditional churches - what Berg referred to as Systemites. He became the Endtime Prophet, who referred to himself as Moses or Mo and preached an anacalyptic message and the Law of Love.

He seduced Karen Zerby (aka Maria), the daughter of a strict conservative preacher. She'd left her family to join Berg's mission. He convinced her to be his polygamous 'wife' and his queen.

Ricky Rodriguez 'aka Davidito' was a product of not-so-immaculate conception resulting from Zerby's 'flirty fishing'. FFing was a new doctrine as part of the Law of Love that Berg and Zerby introduced in the seventies. The women were sent out as heaven's harlots to bring men to Jesus and The Family by selfless acts of sexual sacrifice.

Ricky was the Prophet Prince, and details of his life were documented in a controversial publication The Story of Davidito - containing nude photographs of Ricky and adults in sex play from the youngest age. The book was distributed as a parenting book with The Family. Ricky was a sexual playmate for his nanny Sara Kelley (also called Sue and later changed her name to Angela Smith).

Berg considered the Systemites, including mainstream churches to be too prohibitive and condemnatory about sex. In his letters, his form of communication to his followers, he outlined his doctrines. One letter was called The Devil Hates Sex, and detailed how God made sex to be enjoyed even by children. As his doctrines became more bizarre and illegal, Berg and Zerby went into hiding and became faceless to their followers.

Many second-generation children escaped the cult and several that revealed they had been sexually and physically abused - being beaten or subjected to violent exorcisms. His grand-daughter Merry was abused with violent exorcisms, because she dared to question the teachings. Defectors found it hard to integrate into the society they had been taught was so evil. Many became drug-addicts and/or committed suicide. Those that spoke out were labelled liars and 'bitter apostates' by The Family.

Merry came to see her grandfather as a drunken madman. Her father (David Berg's son) had committed suicide years before. She was slapped by her grandfather, speaking in tongues and 'rebuking demons' commanding them to leave her body. Her head was banged against a wall until she was vomiting and then it was said she was vomiting demons.

After Berg's death, Zerby was now the head of the Family and consulted the dead. She proclaimed that she had revelations that Jesus desired sex from his followers.

Ricky left The Family and tried to leave his past behind him, but his rage at his mother consumed him.

He made a ranting video about his anger at his mother and the cult and how he planned to take revenge against his abusers. He couldn't get to his mother, so he killed Sara, his former nanny, before taking his own life.



Children of God/The Family

Abuse of Brent by Warren

"You cannot tell anyone or say anything to anyone - because this is between you and God. If you do tell, you will burn in hell," he [Warren] said, trying to make me feel the flames....He put me in the tub and made me bend over. He put his hand over my mouth so that no one could hear the screams. And then I was in so much pain...I thought I was going to die.

Extract from Lost Boys

LOST BOYS

Brent Jeffs had been a Lost Boy, one of the many boys abandoned or tossed out of the Fundamentalist Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints (FLDS). The FLDS practise polygamy secretly (whereas mainstream Mormons discontinued the practice), and believethat multiple wives were required for salvation.

When Brent's uncle Warren Jeffs started to take over as Prophet, he arranged marriages of older men to underage girls. The Lost Boys, thousands of them were neglected or abandoned, because they were competition for Warren and older men wanting extra wives. These boys, often young teens, with no financial support or skills to cope with life on the outside frequently became addicted to drugs and/or committed suicide. Brent lost two brothers this way.

Brent was taught a bizarre version of science. All the bits on evolution and human anatomy were cut out of books. He was taught that dinosaur bones were remnants from other planets and that the reason for polygamy was to populate new planets.

Brent suffered post-traumatic-stress-disorder and had vivid nightmares and flashbacks of being raped by Warren when he was a child. He was also terrified of hell, as Warren preached continually about hell and the end of the world. Warren was severe in his punishments for 'minor' infractions as questioning his authority or refusing to wear the mandatory long underwear.

After his brother's deaths, Brent summoned the courage to speak out about the FLDS. He was one of a group of Lost Boys to file a law suit against Warren.


Warren Jeffs

Different World

The absence of dogs in the children's lives stems from day in the late 1990s that I remember well. On orders from Warren Jeffs, all the dogs in the community were rounded up and killed or taken to the pound...lt was chilling to me that no one - no one - challenged him. So it wasn't a surprise to me that none of the FLDS children had seen a dog. Similarly, some of the kids held in state custody after the raid had never seen crayons before and tried to unwrap them and eat them.

Extract from Triumph

Triumph: Life After the Cult--A Survivor's Lessons
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TRIUMPH

Carolyn Jessop was one of the many wives of Merril Jessop, the leader of the FLDS while Warren Jeffs is in jail. She fled the FLDS with her eight children, one severely disabled. Destitute and without child support payments, they lived in leaking trailers. At first her children were angry at her for taking her away from they life they knew. The eldest, Betty refused to stop wearing the FLDS clothes - long-sleeved, full-length praire dresses, and returned to the cult as soon as she was 18.

Carolyn wrote a best-selling book Escape about her experience. In Triumph, she outlines her thoughts and role in the raids on the FLDS. She says how she was accused by the FLDS of being a liar. She faced her past head-on in frightening court battles, where FLDS women turned up in the hundreds to intimidate her. She gained the courage to pursue her husband for missed child support, and won. The settlement was nearly $100,000, but Merril only drip-feeds $100 per month.

Girls in the cult were in 'spiritual marriages' from age 12. Those in the FLDS have a much higher incidence of the genetic disease fumarase deficiency (resulting in severe brain retardation, seizures and encephalopathy) than all other worldwide cases combined. This results from the intensive in-breeding within the FLDS - marriage of first cousins and sisters marrying the same man, resulting in children that are half-siblings as well as first cousins.

Carolyn and her children appear to be well-adjusted. She lives in hope that Betty will leave the cult.

Conclusion

Both these cults started out not much different from mainstream religion. The Family/Children of God developed out of pentecostal Christianity. The FLDS wanted to keep practising polygamy after the LDS discontinued the practice.

Both of these cults didn't start out as dangerous religions. They would have just been weird religions in most people's books. Then they evolved into evil movements, hiding criminal activity.

The danger was in the growing isolation and the leader. A perverted leader that was a control freak and claiming to hear God's voice would gradually introduce corruption. Most followers didn't notice - they were like frogs in a pot of water being slowly heated, and didn't realise they were being cooked until it was too late.

David Berg wrote about how his mother caught him masturbating as a young child. She brought in the whole family, a knife and bowl, and said she would cut it off. He never forgave her for embarrassing and terrifying him. He also told a story about a babysitter that used to suck on his genitals each day, and he claimed he enjoyed it. Berg decided the church was too prohibitive about sex, so he wanted children to grow up with sex.

Brent Jeffs thinks Warren's teachings about never being naked, being quick about changing diapers and always covering all exposed skin result from his won struggles with his lack of control over his desires. Perhaps Warren was abused, but Brent found it hard to understand how the abused would inflict this on someone else. Warren was manipulate from the youngest age and hungry for power - traits he learned off his mother. He was fascinated with Hitler.

Even in mainstream religion, abuse of power and criminal activity takes place. Devotees live in their brainwashed bubble, relying on a charismatic leader to hear the voice of God and to tell people how to live their lives. With both these cults, they were able to justify anything they liked in the Bible, just like mainstream Christians do. It seems that when it comes to religion, people throw away their rational brains.


Comments

TahoeDoc profile image

TahoeDoc Level 4 Commenter 15 months ago

Great hub. It's sad how many stories are out there and how the psychological control of a charismatic but crazy leader will allow people to do things to other humans that are incomprehensible to most of us.

Blaise Pascal: "Men never do evil so completely and cheerfully as when they do it from religious conviction."

Steven Weinberg: "I think that on the balance the moral influence of religion has been awful. With or without religion, good people can behave well and bad people can do evil. But for good people to do evil -- that takes religion."

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Baileybear Hub Author 15 months ago

TahoeDoc - I'm amazed at how people get sucked into these kinds of things, but with both these examples, the change was gradual. Religious people are good at regurgitating their holy book and the doctrines of their leaders, but can't seem to think for themselves.

The biggest victims are young children indoctrinated into religion, particularly when abused as well.

Two of the books above had reasonably good outcomes. Jesus Freaks was just so tragic.

Jewels profile image

Jewels Level 3 Commenter 15 months ago

Gosh, I've just come from reading the most devilish of 'Christian' hubs that disgusted me to damnation! There is certainly a level of psychosis that runs through some of these preachers. There have been so many 'Christian' cults that have led to terrible terrible acts. I wait with baited breath for the day the 'Christian' church is reigned in and regulated.

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Baileybear Hub Author 15 months ago

Jewels - It seems no-one in The Family has been charged with anything - it's too difficult with them all changing their names and moving all over the world while in hiding. Ricky hoped his actions would put a spotlight on The Family, but apart from a bit of media flurry, they went into damage control and basically made out he was rebellious & unstable etc & it was nothing to do with the way he was brought up.

There's plenty of disturbing 'christian' hubs - I don't even bother posting on them now, as they delete my comments if I disagree

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Sophia Angelique Level 6 Commenter 15 months ago

My life was ruined by the Assemblies of God.

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Baileybear Hub Author 15 months ago

Sophia - I had bad experiences with the pentecostal churches too

http://hubpages.com/hub/Ex-Christian-from-believer

http://hubpages.com/hub/Ex-Christian-Throwing-the-

The AoG moved into a building that was a supermarket. Someone spray-painted on the wall 'supermarket religion'.

The Family actually had AoG beginnings - David Berg was mingling with those in an AoG coffeehouse & felt a connection with them

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arthurchappell 15 months ago

A very good assessment of the COG movement, one of the nastiest of all the cults - totally agree that the isolationist aspect of this and many cults is when they are at their most dangerous.

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Sophia Angelique Level 6 Commenter 15 months ago

Baileybear, I can honestly say that my exposure to these people turned me from a person who loved people to someone who has never trusted human beings since. It truly destroyed me and destroyed my life. When I see these people rant on all the forums about tuheir 'love of Jesus", I just think, 'insane.'

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diogenes Level 7 Commenter 15 months ago

Just another sad indicment of religion. In this case, it seems paedophilia was one of the guiding doctrines, along with drugs.

It's not hard to explain: charismatic, defective leaders easily acquire sheep to follow them, and perverting the strong sex drive in us all to an "anything goes" level is very seductive to many. Homosexuality and paedophilia has always played a significant part in many religions - if not all. Many of these splinter groups carried this disgusting doctrine to excess. My own thoughts over religion are: "if in doubt, throw it out!"

A very interesting article...Bob

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Baileybear Hub Author 15 months ago

arthurchappell - seems a lot of narcissist, psychotic sickos desire to have a congregation of followers. I don't see any difference to Hitler

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tonymac04 15 months ago

Makes me wonder about the "when" in your title!

Thanks for this enlightening and brave Hub.

Love and peace

Tony

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Baileybear Hub Author 15 months ago

Sophia - the penties have a fascination with demons, hell etc too. I found my experience overall very damaging, and many years of my life were wasted

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Baileybear Hub Author 15 months ago

diogenes - David Berg was an alcoholic and many within the exclusive brethren abuse alcohol (even though they don't condone it).

These pedophiliac cults/religions go to extremes with sexuality - they are either extremely prohibitive or extremely permissive

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Baileybear Hub Author 15 months ago

tonymac - I wasn't sure what to call it. I just thought these cults were particularly evil. Even the people that left the cults thought that they did not start off evil, just a bit wacky

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Pcunix Level 7 Commenter 15 months ago

Religion is insanity. Fortunately it is very mild in most people, causes no harm and may even lead to good things. I HOPE that the good outweighs the bad, but ideally I'd rather have a world where no one believes any of this nonsense. I'm not holding my breath!

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Baileybear Hub Author 15 months ago

Pcunix - I think the difference between 'harmless' religion and evil religion is a level of extremity.

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Austinstar Level 7 Commenter 15 months ago

Personally, I don't think there is ANY "harmless" religion. They all corrupt the minds of children in one way or another.

Christianity is the worst for worshiping a man who was tortured (like that was a GOOD thing). The sign of the cross is just a symbol of torture and death to me. That they see suffering and torture and death as "salvation" is some kind of weird.

That they can twist this view of salvation to justify pretty much any kind of abuse is some kind of criminal!

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GusTheRedneck Level 6 Commenter 15 months ago

Baileybear - Your article is quite accurate in its portrayals but for one major thing. The items and the people you describe are really NOT religion. They are corruption at its finest.

Gus :-)))

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Rod Marsden Level 4 Commenter 15 months ago

Baileybear, I can see why one of these cults would appeal to the young. Certainly when I was in my twenties I felt that mainstream Christianity was too down on sex and just getting in the way of the hippy message and a less violent way of life for all. I was right but a cult that says molesting children is fine is also dead set wrong.

Nobody should be molested when they are young and no one should live out the rest of their life without a life partner because some religions says that it is the noble thing to do. In other words there has to be room for both commonsense and that four letter word - love. I like women but that is me. What two adults want to do if what they want to do doesn't involve anyone getting hurt is fine to me.

One thing cults do is pray upon the weaknesses of people. Mind you I have also seen the mainstream church do some of that too.

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DzyMsLizzy Level 7 Commenter 15 months ago

Well said. Amen! I've no use for religions of any stripe. I'm much more in tune with the old pagan ways, of being one with nature, and less about moral imperatives. I believe people have an innate sense of right and wrong, without needing preachments.

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graceomalley Level 4 Commenter 15 months ago

Sophia - have you written any hubs about your experiences w/ religion? I would be curious to read them. I enjoy Baileybears hubs on similar topic.

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Baileybear Hub Author 15 months ago

Austinstar - yes, the christians do have a martyr mentality/persecution complex.

I can't understand how a loving god requires the brutal murder of a man to make up for a curse for all mankind from a woman eating a piece of fruit - the punishment is way out of proportion to the crime

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Baileybear Hub Author 15 months ago

Gus - all religions are susceptible to corruption. I wonder how many 'leaders' are just out there to be con-artists eg the evangelists who rake in money for fake healing meetings - do they enjoy the power trip, or are they just after the money? Both of the above cults were corrupt with money too - got everyone to sign over their houses, bank accounts etc

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Baileybear Hub Author 15 months ago

Rod - Berg (like his mother) were tired of what they called 'churchianity' (a name that's cropped up in the forums). I see his point about sex being too extremely taboo, but unfortunately, he went too far the other way (and of course, involving children is criminal)

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Baileybear Hub Author 15 months ago

DzyMsLizzy - People find it hard to think independently and consider what their ethics and values are. They rely on a set of prescribed man-made morals from the church (which in these cases are in conflict with the law of the land)

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Baileybear Hub Author 15 months ago

graceomalley - Sophia has one about why she is an atheist. I'd like to know more about her experience with the AoG if she wants to share

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Rod Marsden Level 4 Commenter 15 months ago

I remember the Orange people. They pushed the idea of free sex and got a lot of young people in that way. Also the head of the cult became a very rich man.

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Manna in the wild Level 4 Commenter 15 months ago

Stuff like this needs to be said. It leaves me speechless though. I really can't understand how or why people get sucked into cults. But then, I guess I'm not a psychologist. Perhaps it makes sense if you know more about that sort of thing.

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Baileybear Hub Author 15 months ago

Rod - God's pimp

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Baileybear Hub Author 15 months ago

Manna - From what I've been reading, it seems that some people are born into them, and are indoctrinated that the outside world is evil.

Those that choose to join do so before it turns from a wacky religion into a cult - their leader is charismatic and progressive which appeals. Then, gradually, the madness of the leader comes through, but the people have already stopped thinking for themselves and because they are becoming increasingly isolated from the outside world (either physically or socially) they don't suspect a thing (ie Jim Jones started out as the charismatic pentecostal christian group that was about mixing race before evolving into a murderous & abusive cult).

Many religions use manipulation to recruit members eg love-bombing - pretending they're your new best friends

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Rod Marsden Level 4 Commenter 15 months ago

In a way I can understand why some people get sucked into cults. There is the need to believe in something that goes hand in hand with the belief that the established faiths have in some fashion failed.

During the First World War the Catholic Church in Australia did not support the war and was against bringing in conscription. This worked in well with people's beliefs especially those Australians of Irish descent.

During the 2nd World War the pope of the day may not have done all he could have done to stop the rise of fascism but there were key members of both the Catholic Church and the Church of England who risked their livelihood and even their lives to save others.

During the Vietnam War there was the feeling that Christianity, at least in terms of Catholicism, had really let the side down by the overall Catholic support for an Asian dictator in South Vietnam whose only reason for acceptance as head man was the claim that he was a Catholic. Taking this into account and the fact that there wasn't a strong Christian presence amongst the hippies you can see where I am headed. Yes, there was the strong feeling that persisted and still persists that something was wrong with mainstay religion and there has to be a better alternative. This is my understanding.

Jim Jones started his run at a time when young people were becoming disillusioned with mainstay religion and looking for alternatives.

Yes, many religions do use manipulation to recruit members. It always helps when the mainstay religion, whatever it is, looks bad or way behind the times. Bright colors, flowers and the promise of love appealed to a lot of young people when it came to the Orange people. A charismatic leader, of course, is needed to really get the ball rolling as you have said Baileybear.

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Baileybear Hub Author 15 months ago

Rod - charismatic leaders seem to mesmerise people so they switch their brains off - people just want to believe the fairy-tale that gets spun.

What is scary, is how people are willing to die for their leader or kill for their god eg the 'christian' ministers that murdered abortionists for murder - what irony. And the 'honour' killings - slitting the throats of women for adultery but the men rape etc and nothing is done about it. Violence for god is disgusting.

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Rod Marsden Level 4 Commenter 15 months ago

Baileybear, charismatic leaders do mesmerize people but only because the people have a need to believe in something. When the big power brokers of religion look bad then the cults and the charismatic nut-jobs are given their chance to snap up recruits.

Yes, violence for God is disgusting.

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Baileybear Hub Author 15 months ago

Roy - people can't be hypnotised unless they want to. Plenty choose to be mass-hypnotised eg in the pentecostal churches

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Rod Marsden Level 4 Commenter 15 months ago

And people can be so willing to be hypnotized. Yes, there is a choice...in the beginning. Strange business this sort of thing.

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Baileybear Hub Author 15 months ago

Rod - 'strange business' - yes, they get people to donate lots of money, and then they don't have to pay tax

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Rod Marsden Level 4 Commenter 15 months ago

In some instances they get people to work two jobs for the cause so they don't have the time or luxury to think straight.

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Baileybear Hub Author 15 months ago

Rod - seems to be a common thing with these cults to deprive them of sleep and work them hard so too tired to think. The FLDS children had all their toys, books and play phased out, and they worked all day eg pulled weeds

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Jefsaid Level 2 Commenter 15 months ago

People with religious indoctrination particularly in small isolated communities seem very susceptible to these cults.

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Baileybear Hub Author 15 months ago

Jefsaid - one of these cults originated in California. They fled the US after their nutty leader had predictions of catastrophes & scattered in poor countries around the world, claiming to do missionary work. The cult members were very deprived, but the leaders lived a very comfortable existence, in hiding from their own members

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Jefsaid Level 2 Commenter 15 months ago

Baileybear - this sounds like a story told a hundred time throughout history.

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Baileybear Hub Author 15 months ago

Jefsaid - probably thousands of times

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DIYweddingplanner Level 4 Commenter 15 months ago

BB, This is just an example of how many horrific things are done in the name of faith...is it any wonder so many people lose theirs? Excellent hub.

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Baileybear Hub Author 14 months ago

DIY - pretty scary, isn't it? Someone said in the forums that in 44 states of the US, it's legal to let their child die from lack of medical treatment because they believed in prayer

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lorlie6 Level 3 Commenter 14 months ago

The first video of the Children of God is terribly disturbing, Baileybear. This whole hub is exhaustively researched, great job!

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Baileybear Hub Author 14 months ago

lorlie - reading the book was rather disturbing, yet fascinating too - hard to believe people get sucked into this

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marlanasifter 12 months ago

It's so sick.

I'm not amazed that people get sucked into these things though. With the right recipe, it can work - a charasmatic manipulative egotistical perverted charming man proclaims himself a prophet to the vulnerable people who have suffered past traumas, family trouble, addictions, depression, and with possible dependent personalities.Its sad that the victims/converts do not have families that can support them in their time of need, and instead find themselves crawling to their "new family" - a cult.

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Baileybear Hub Author 12 months ago

marlana - this kind of thing happens again and again - pretty scary.

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